When people think of elopements, they often assume they’re a “cheap” alternative to a traditional wedding. While it’s true that elopements can help you save money, they’re about so much more than just cutting costs, they’re about creating a day that’s uniquely yours. Whether you’re going all out with an epic destination or keeping things simple and sweet, understanding the costs involved can help you plan your dream day without surprises.

Let’s break down what it really costs to elope, with average price ranges for each element so you can start budgeting confidently!

Location & Travel

1. Flights
Domestic Flights: $300–$500 per person on average.
If your dream spot is within the country, domestic flights are a manageable expense. You might even find deals by booking early or traveling during off-peak seasons.
International Flights: $800–$1,500+ per person.
Eloping abroad? Keep in mind international flights can significantly increase your budget, especially for far-off destinations.

3. Transportation
Rental Cars: $50–$150 per day.
Essential if your elopement spot requires driving to remote areas or multiple locations.
Shuttles or Ride Services: $50–$200.
For city or tourist-friendly destinations, shuttles or ride-shares might be more cost-effective.
Adventure-Specific Transport: $100–$500+.
Helicopter rides, boat charters, or 4×4 vehicles for hard-to-reach spots can add a wow factor but come at an extra cost.

4. Permits and Location Fees
National Parks and Scenic Spots: $50–$300.
Many parks and outdoor venues require permits for ceremonies or photography.
Private Venues: $500–$3,000.
If you’re opting for a private property or exclusive location, venue fees can vary widely depending on amenities and exclusivity.

5. Meals and Miscellaneous Travel Costs
Dining Out: $20–$50 per meal per person for casual options, or $100+ for upscale dining.
Plan for meals during travel days, especially if your destination doesn’t offer self-catering.
Travel Insurance: $50–$200.
Protect your trip investment, especially for international or destination elopements.

Photography

Average Cost: $3,000–$10,000+

Professional elopement photographers specialize in capturing the intimacy and emotion of small ceremonies. Their focus isn’t just on posed shots; it’s about documenting the day in a way that feels natural and authentic to your story.

What to Look For in a Photographer

• Style: Do you prefer dramatic landscapes, candid moments, or timeless, romantic shots? Find a photographer whose portfolio matches your vibe.
• Experience: Elopements often take place in adventurous or remote locations. Look for a photographer who’s comfortable navigating outdoor settings and adapting to unexpected challenges (like weather or lighting).
• Packages: Many photographers offer full-day or multi-hour coverage. Ask about additional options like pre-wedding sessions or post-elopement shoots to capture your full experience.

Videography

Average Cost: $2,000–$8,000+

A videographer captures more than just visuals, they record sound, movement, and atmosphere, allowing you to hear your vows, see your partner’s reaction, and relive your day in a way that photos can’t fully replicate.

Why Add Videography to Your Elopement

• Capture the Emotions: Video brings your day to life with all the sounds, laughter, and heartfelt words of your ceremony.
• Share the Moment: If you’re eloping without family or friends, a video allows you to share the experience with loved ones later.
• Memories in Motion: Your first dance, a breathtaking walk to your ceremony site, or the quiet moments afterward all feel even more magical in motion.

Photography and Videography Bundles

Many photographers work closely with videographers or even offer packages that include both services. Bundling can save money and ensures a cohesive style between your photos and video. A photographer-videographer duo often has established workflows, making your day feel seamless and stress-free.

Average Cost for Bundled Services: $5,000–$15,000+

Attire and Accessories

Average Cost: $500–$3,000+

Whether you’re going for a traditional wedding outfit or something more relaxed, your attire will likely be a key part of your budget.
What to Consider:

• Dresses typically range from $500–$2,000.
• Suits can cost $300–$1,000.
• Don’t forget accessories like shoes ($50–$200), jewelry ($50–$500+), and any weather-appropriate additions like jackets or boots.

Decor and Flowers

Average Cost: $200–$1,000+

Elopements don’t require elaborate decor, but small touches can make your ceremony feel special.
What to Consider:
Bouquets and boutonnieres cost $100–$300.
Additional decor like candles, arches, or fairy lights might cost $100–$700, depending on your vision.

Hair and Makeup

Average Cost: $200–$500+

Looking and feeling your best is important, especially with photos capturing every detail. Hiring a professional hair and makeup artist ensures you’re camera-ready while taking the stress out of styling yourself.
Why It’s Worth It

• Confidence Boost: A pro will know how to enhance your natural beauty and make you feel incredible.
• Weather-Ready Looks: Professionals can create styles that hold up against wind, heat, or humidity, especially for outdoor elopements.
• Stress-Free Preparation: Instead of rushing to DIY your look, you can relax and enjoy the getting-ready process

Officiant

Average Cost: $200–$500+ (or free if you get creative!)

Your officiant is a key part of your elopement, not just legally but emotionally, as they guide you through the moment you say “I do.” Whether you hire a professional, have a friend step in, or even marry yourselves, there are plenty of options to make this part of your day feel meaningful and personal.

Options for Your Officiant

1. Professional Officiants

Cost: $200–$500+

These officiants are experienced at creating personalized, meaningful ceremonies that reflect your love story.

Ideal for couples who want a polished, structured ceremony without the stress of DIYing this aspect.

2. Photographer-Officiant Combos

Cost: $50–$200 added to your photography package.

Some photographers are also ordained, making them a convenient and budget-friendly option.

This is a great choice for elopements where simplicity is key, allowing your photographer to handle both roles seamlessly.

3. Friend or Family Member as Officiant

Cost: Free to $50 for ordination (depending on the platform).

Having a close friend or family member officiate your ceremony can add an extra layer of personal connection. Many states allow anyone to become ordained online through services like the Universal Life Church, often for free or a small fee.

4. Self-Solemnization

Cost: Just the price of your marriage license, usually $30–$90.

What It Is: In some states (like Colorado and California), couples can legally marry themselves without an officiant. This option is perfect for those who want the most intimate, “just us” ceremony possible.

Why It’s Great: Self-solemnization is the ultimate expression of intimacy and independence, allowing you to fully customize your vows and ceremony.

Things to Consider: Make sure your state allows this and check if witnesses are required.

Accommodations

Where you stay during your elopement is more than just a place to sleep—it’s part of the experience. Your accommodations can serve as a cozy spot to get ready, a romantic escape to unwind, or even a location for part of your elopement itself. Whether you’re drawn to luxury hotels, rustic cabins, or unique Airbnbs, there are options to suit every style and budget.

Types of Accommodations
1. Airbnb or Vacation Rentals
Average Cost: $150–$400 per night
Vacation rentals are a popular choice for eloping couples because of their versatility. You can find unique stays like treehouses, desert domes, or beachfront bungalows that double as an elopement backdrop.
Why It’s Great:

• Private and intimate, giving you space to relax and enjoy the day.
• Often comes with amenities like full kitchens, hot tubs, or outdoor spaces perfect for a post-ceremony meal or stargazing.
• Can act as your getting-ready location, ceremony spot, and honeymoon suite all in one.

2. Boutique Hotels
Average Cost: $200–$500 per night
If you want a mix of style and convenience, boutique hotels offer a blend of charm and luxury. They’re often located in scenic or central areas, making them ideal for couples who want a mix of adventure and relaxation.
Why It’s Great:

• Aesthetic designs that photograph beautifully.
• Easy access to amenities like room service, spas, or concierge assistance.
• Perfect for couples who want a pampered experience without venturing too far from their elopement location.

3. Rustic Cabins or Glamping
Average Cost: $100–$300 per night
For couples eloping in nature, staying in a cabin or glamping setup can immerse you in the environment while still offering comfort. Think cozy log cabins, yurts, or safari-style tents.
Why It’s Great:

• Ideal for mountain, forest, or desert elopements.
• Often located in remote, picturesque settings with plenty of privacy.
• Adds to the adventure while giving you a comfortable place to unwind.

4. Luxury Resorts
Average Cost: $300–$1,000+ per night
If you’re looking to splurge, a luxury resort offers top-tier accommodations with everything you need to relax and celebrate in style. Many resorts are all-inclusive, which means you can focus on enjoying the day without worrying about logistics.
Why It’s Great:

• Unparalleled comfort and amenities, like spas, infinity pools, and private beaches.
• Staff often experienced in hosting weddings or elopements, making it easy to plan on-site ceremonies or post-vow celebrations.

5. Camping or RV Rentals
Average Cost: $50–$200 per night
For couples seeking a true off-grid adventure, camping or RV rentals let you embrace the wild while keeping your costs low.
Why It’s Great:

• Perfect for elopements in national parks or remote areas.
• Creates a rugged, adventurous vibe that’s perfect for nature lovers.
• Combine with outdoor activities like hiking, stargazing, or campfire dinners.

Adventure Activities

Average Cost: $100–$1000+
Incorporating an adventurous experience into your elopement can make the day unforgettable and uniquely yours. These activities double as a way to bond and celebrate in a way that reflects your personality as a couple.
Examples of Adventure Activities

• Kayaking or Paddleboarding: Perfect for water-loving couples who want to explore scenic coastlines or serene lakes.
• Hot Air Balloon Rides: Soar above breathtaking landscapes for a one-of-a-kind perspective and epic photo opportunities.
• Hiking Tours: Discover hidden trails or hire a guide to take you to a secluded, off-the-beaten-path ceremony spot.
• Helicopter Rides: For couples wanting to exchange vows in a hard-to-reach or dramatic location, a helicopter ride adds adventure and exclusivity.
• Horseback Riding: Enjoy a romantic ride through beaches, forests, or open fields as part of your elopement adventure.

Personal Details

Average Cost: $50–$200+

The small, sentimental details you bring to your elopement can make the day feel even more personal and meaningful.

Ideas for Personal Touches

• Custom Vow Books: Beautifully designed vow books not only look great in photos but also serve as a keepsake of your promises.
• Stationery: Personalized invitations, elopement announcements, or thank-you notes for family and friends who supported your decision to elope.
• Meaningful Keepsakes: Items like lockets, heirloom jewelry, or a piece of fabric from a loved one’s dress can be incorporated into your look or ceremony.
• Decorative Elements: Small details like a handwritten sign, candles, or fairy lights can transform your ceremony space into something magical.

Budgeting Chart

The chart provides a detailed breakdown of possible items to budget for when planning an elopement or a traditional wedding, highlighting the differences in costs between a single-couple elopement, a small elopement with 10–25 guests, and a large traditional wedding with 150–200 guests. It covers essential expenses like accommodations, photography, and officiant fees, as well as optional extras like decor and adventure activities. Some items, that start at $0, reflect that they are entirely optional and can be tailored to fit your priorities. 

Budgeted Items	Single Elopement (Just the Couple)	Small Elopement (10 to25 Guests)	Wedding (100 to 250 Guests)
Flights	$50 to $2000	$50 to $2000	$0
Transportation	$0 to $400 (3 days)	$0 to $400 (3 days)	$0 to $600 (limo for one night)
Location Permits/Venue	$0 to $350	$0 to $350	$10,000 to $30,000
Photographer	$3,000 to $10,000	$3,000 to $10,000	$3,000 to $10,000
Videographer	$0 to $8,000	$0 to $8,000	$2,000 to $8,000
Officiant	$0 to $500	$0 to $500	$0 to $500
Wedding Planner	$0 to $3,000	$0 to $3,000	$0 to $5,000
Florals	$0 to $300	$0 to $300	$400 to $3,000
Marriage License	$10 to $150	$10 to $150	$10 to $150
Accommodation	$0 to $2,000	$0 to $8,000	$0 to $1,000
Adventure Activities	$0 to $1,000	$0 to $3,000	$0
Attire & Accessories	$500 to $3,000	$500 to $3,000	$500 to $3,000
Hair & Makeup	$0 to $1,200 (if they hike with you)	$0 to $1,200 (if they hike with you)	$200 to $650
Food	$30 to $500	$200 to $2,000	$5,000 to $9,000
DJ/Band	$0 to $600	$0 to $600	$600 to $2,000
Cake/Dessert	$0 to $100	$0 to $100	$100 to $600
Decor	$0	$0 to $700	$500 to $5,000
Party Favors	$0	$0	$100 to $450
Stationary	$0 to $100	$0 to $100	$250 to $500
Rehearsal Dinner	$0	$0	$1,500 to $3,000
Total Cost	$3,590 to $33,200	$3,760 to $42,800	$24,160 to $82,450

Money-Saving Tips for Your Elopement

• Elopement Timing: Choose a weekday to avoid peak pricing.
• Local Options: Opt for a stunning spot close to home to cut down on travel costs.
• Bundled Services: Look for vendors who offer photo, video, and officiant services together.
• Minimal Decor: Let the natural beauty of your location shine and keep decor simple.

Splurge vs. Save: What’s Worth It?

Splurge On: Photography and videography to ensure your memories are beautifully captured.

Save On: Decor and attire by focusing on meaningful, practical choices.

Balance: Prioritize what’s most important to you as a couple, whether that’s an epic location, a celebratory meal, or adventure experiences.

Elopements can be as budget-friendly or luxurious as you want, with costs that reflect your priorities. The most important thing is to create a day that feels authentic and meaningful to your love story.
If you’re ready to start planning your elopement, I’d love to help make your vision a reality. Whether it’s capturing every beautiful moment, sharing tips on the best locations, or helping you craft a day filled with meaning, let’s create something magical together.

Get in touch today, and let’s start planning your adventure!